We were invisible to the O.S.U. students. They would look at our sign make some movement of the eyebrows, and then quickly fix their gaze back to the ground. It seemed as if there were secrets or beautiful works of art etched into the pavement because people studied it as if it were scripture. It even got to the point where we would say "any question you want, really" when they even glanced at the sign, but we were still ignored or denied.
However, we did meet one of my favorite people so far in this location. Her name is Denise, she's a grad student at Ohio State and she's working on a double degree, that means double the work in the same amount of time. She found her way into the army reserves after what she told us was 12 years of total wandering. She said she could take the years from 19-31 and burn them all away and there would be no change. "You can always make more money, you can always get back in shape, but you can never get back the time you've spent." Wise words from someone who feels like she has a lot of regrets in her life. She said she lacked a direction, lacked a focus, and because of that she spent a lot of time wandering, not knowing what to do with her life. It was too bad we didn't get to talk with her longer because her ride came and she had to go (oddly enough her ride was Academy alum from the class of 96'). Denise also gave us a lot of great advice and encouragement, thanks Denise.

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